The #1 Reason You’re Not Losing Weight

The #1 reason you aren't losing weight and what you can do about it.

If you were to spend just 8 minutes on Google, researching statistics on how many people fail at trying to lose weight you’d be appalled.

The current stats show a 95% to 99% range. That essentially means that the majority of people are destined to fail at it.

Is this shocking?

The question one should ask is, “Why are most people failing to lose weight?”

After all, they start out with the best intentions. They promise themselves to be determined and stay the course.

They actually take action and change their diets. Many drop a chunk of cash on a gym membership that will supposedly get them the body they’ve always desired…

And despite all these positive actions, they FAIL.

The number one reason you aren't losing weight

Losing Weight Is A Mind Game

The answer is simple. The number 1 reason people are failing is because losing weight is a mind game. Not a physical one.

If you change your mind, you WILL change your body.

You’re probably thinking, “So what does that really mean?

What is a mind game?

It means that your weight loss comes down to the decisions you make on a daily basis.

Successful weight loss comes about through a sum of small efforts multiplied by time.

This is where most people trip up. They do not last the distance. They sabotage themselves along the way and when progress is slow to come, they beat themselves up over their lack of progress.

Finally, they decide that it’s all too difficult and they’re just not capable of it. They resign themselves to their fate of being overweight or obese… and they quit.

The biggest tragedy of all – most people quit within a month.

But you’re not going to do that. No, not you. You’re better than that. You are going to develop the mindset that will take you from flab to fab.

You’ll not stop till you get there… and if you understand the points below, get there you will.

Does It Help Me Or Hurt Me?

Before you make any decision that affects your weight loss journey, this is the first question you need to ask yourself. This question alone is enough to make you think before you act.

If you see cookies in the office kitchen, before you eat it, ask yourself, Will this help me reach my weight loss goals?

Common sense will indicate that the extra calories from consuming those cookies will affect your weight loss adversely. It’s not something you should be eating.

Now that you’ve asked the question, it’s time to run for the door. Don’t do what hurts you.

The same applies to your workout sessions. Will skipping your workout hurt you? Of course, it will. Your progress will be slowed down and there will be the niggling feeling in your heart that you did not keep your promise to yourself.

Your metabolism for that day will not be elevated and you’ll not be in fat-burning mode. Your action or lack of it will hurt you. So, get the workout over and done with.

Are you tempted to take things easy and not push yourself during your workout?

Good question.  The only thing that matters is if it will hurt you to slack off during your workout. Yes, it will. Case closed. Do your best.  Sweat is just your fat crying.

Like the Navy Seals say, “No one ever drowned in sweat!”

As long as you continually ask yourself this question and do what helps you, your progress will be accelerated.

Discipline is just choosing between what you want now and what you want most.

 Losing weight is a mindset

Losing Weight Is A Marathon

Losing weight is a marathon and not a sprint. Most people gain weight gradually over a long time. Just like how it took you a while to gain the weight, it will take you a while to lose it.

If you think that you can lose all your excess pounds within 2 weeks or a month, you’re almost certain to fail in your weight loss journey. You’re setting yourself up for disappointment and unnecessarily stressing yourself.

You want to make it easy on yourself by making small positive changes over time. If you drink 2 sodas a day, drop it to 1 and a half cans for a week, then 1 can a week and slowly eliminate it totally from your diet.

If you decide to go cold turkey and cut out sodas completely from your diet, you’re constantly going to be craving for it. Some people make it even worse by drinking water with lemon slices as a replacement for the old habit. They hate the taste of it and gag half the time while they’re fighting the urge to just drink the soda.

The goal here is to go slow. You do not want to do it all at once. We are creatures of habit. It takes time to break habits.

Foods containing sugar are highly addictive. So is junk food and greasy food. Your body craves these foods to feel full and happy.

By totally cutting them out in a misguided attempt at life transformation, you’re making your body and yourself unhappy. It’s just too much too soon. In most cases, sooner or later you’ll give in to temptation and binge on the very foods you’re supposed to avoid.

Asking yourself if it will help or hurt you will be pointless here. Your cravings will be too strong and you’ll cave. The end result is that you’ll feel like you’ve failed yourself and you just don’t have the determination to stay the course.

This is what happens to most people who try to do too much too soon. Once they feel like they’ve failed themselves, they experience a sense of regret and guilt and worthlessness. The goal seems beyond their abilities and they throw in the towel without realizing that they are their only opponent.

Make slow, measurable progress over a reasonable time. Slow and steady will make your journey easier and you will reach your destination.

Your goal is to find a healthy lifestyle you can live with and that will help you maintain a healthy weight.

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Willpower Is Not Enough

This point ties in closely with the earlier one. We live in a day and age where there is so much talk about being disciplined and determined in order to succeed. Much emphasis is placed on willpower.

If you give in to temptation, you’re deemed weak and lack focus.

When it comes to weight loss, you want to eliminate willpower from the equation as much as possible. It sounds counterintuitive but it works.

What does that mean?

If you’re trying to eat clean, you need to remove all unhealthy foods from your refrigerator if you have a sweet tooth. You need to avoid going to the bar with friends if there’s alcohol going to be served and you love your drinks.

It is arrogant to assume that you’ll have the willpower to say no and be true to your diet.

Have you ever noticed that most people binge eat late in the day or at night?

There’s a reason for this. Every day when we wake up, we have a certain amount of energy for the day. As we go through the day, our energy stores get depleted.

Willpower requires energy. When it’s early in the day, you’ll have the strength to say no to temptations that come your way.

However, by the end of the day, when you’re exhausted after a day’s work or a hard workout and you’re sitting on the couch watching TV… and a little thought creeps into your head telling you that there’s a tub of cookies and cream ice-cream in the fridge whispering your name, it will be extremely difficult to say no. And the whispering will get louder. You can bet on that.

You’re tired and you just do not have the energy to summon up enough willpower to say no. Next thing you know, the tub of ice-cream is all eaten and you go to bed feeling like a fat loser.

This could have been avoided if there was no ice-cream around.

No temptation = no willpower required

The same applies to everything else.

Finish up your workouts early in the day. You might not have the energy to force yourself to hit the gym after work.

Make things as easy as possible for you to follow through and don’t give yourself obstacles to cross.

Losing weight is tough enough as it is. have weightloss plan

Have A Weight Loss Plan

Don’t think you can lose weight without a plan. It needs to be more than just simply eating less. That doesn’t work.  You need a proven plan that you can adapt and make your own.

I’ve written a lot about intermittent fasting because it is a simple way of eating that doesn’t involve a lot of meal planning or thinking. You simply stop eating.

Intermittent fasting coupled with nutritional cleansing will help you get rid of the toxins.

Give your body what it needs with the proper nutritional supplements so you can build muscle when you exercise and have more energy. 

Don’t Reward Yourself With Food

Don’t… just don’t. You only reward pets with food. It’s a common practice for people to have a cheat day every few days. This cheat day is like a reward for the hard work endured during the previous few days.

What many people don’t know is that one cheat day can undo 5 days or even a week’s worth of working out.

Where are these calories going to end up? Back on your bottom, waist, and everywhere else. And people wonder why they don’t lose weight… or worse still… they gain a pound or two despite all their efforts.

This mindset will sabotage your weight loss progress greatly… and you may wonder why the weight on the scale just doesn’t seem to change.

It’s fine to have a cheat meal or indulge in some of the foods you love every now and then, but don’t go overboard. Don’t cause your blood sugar to spike and raise the insulin levels in your body. This will cause weight gain.

Reward yourself with a movie or some new clothes… or something that you long for, as long as it’s not food.

Don't reward yourself with food

Observe Your Patterns

Every one of us has certain behavioral patterns that we follow innately. It’s your job to understand yourself. If you notice that you feel great working out early in the morning, stick to it instead of working out at different times.

If you have food cravings whenever you watch TV late in the day, it’s best to avoid TV and go to bed early.

By knowing yourself, you’ll know what suits you best. You do not need to do what everyone else is doing.

Some folks may swear by a run in the morning, but if you hate waking up early you’d be better off doing a high-intensity cardio session in the afternoon. Don’t work against yourself. 

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It’s A Journey

This is something you should sear into your mind. The weight loss journey is not linear. It is very common to expect yourself to progress smoothly and steadily with no hitches or delays.

Reality though is quite another story. There will be days where you slip up on your diet. There may be weeks where you hit a plateau and see no change in the scale weight. You did everything right and still no progress.

This is normal. Everyone who lost weight successfully has gone through this.

All you need to do is keep going. If you slip up, acknowledge your mistake and examine what led you to it. Very often, you’ll notice that you tempted yourself or you were tired or you let someone tell you that ‘just one donut won’t hurt you.’

It happens. What’s crucial is that you do NOT give up and quit because your journey isn’t perfect.

The goal here is persistence and not perfection. If you’re persistent, you’ll get it… and if you’re consistent, you’ll keep it. So, do not give up and you’ll never need to start over.  

What is your reason for wanting to lose weight

Know Your Reason Why You Want To Lose Weight

There is always an emotional reason for why we do what we do.

If you’re trying to lose weight, there is DEFINITELY an emotional reason to it.

This is your “why”.

Maybe you are like me and want to improve your health so you can be around to see your kids grow up. Or maybe you are a successful career woman wants to get in shape so you feel more confident giving presentations at work. Maybe you have an anniversary trip planned.

Whatever the case may be, there is an emotional reason and it ALWAYS conjures up images in your mind. Your job is to know exactly what your why is… and always keep your eye on it.

When you take your eye off your why you lose focus. Suddenly, all the effort seems like a pointless struggle. The juice doesn’t seem worth the squeeze… and you give up.

This applies to any goal you have in life. Success is about knowing why you’re doing what you’re doing… and then you will gladly pay the price. Make no mistake here. Losing weight will come with some sacrifices.

You will need to cut down on your food intake and reduce the consumption of all the foods you love. You may need to give up TV time to work out at the gym. All these sacrifices will be worth it in the end if you know you’re why.

If you don’t sacrifice for what you want, you will keep searching for the miracle weight loss cure.

You Know The Answer Why You Aren’t Losing Weight

The answer is inside of you. Shift your mindset and you’ll shift the numbers on the scale.

Be consistent with your weight loss goal but be flexible with your methods.

You will get there. I know you can!

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